Which kind of man is the most desired for a woman to marry?

Which kind of man is the most desired for a woman to marry?

Which kind of man is the most desired for a woman to marry?

No longer regard money as dung

This kind of man not only knows how to make money, but also knows how to use money, and their view of money no longer regards money as dung, but thinks that money is very important, and they do not hide their views from others.

Smile like a gentleman, fight like a hooligan

In the eyes of women, although this kind of man has the demeanor of a humble gentleman, he will never become a person who is restricted to death, and their behavior will respond accordingly with the change of the environment, but they have only one goal, that is, to protect the person they love the most, even if it will ruin their image at all.

Advocating neoclassicism

Yi Shu said that a true lady will not boast about how many books she has read and how many places she has traveled. In the same way, a true gentleman will not boast of how rich he is or how rich his family is. This kind of man advocates neoclassicism culturally, that is, he will not copy the Western set, let alone think that mints wine and smoking cigars are gentleman’s culture, but on the contrary, he knows how to draw nutrients from Chinese classical culture and be a “Chinese gentleman”. Of course, this kind of man can also speak fluent English, but they know that the most important thing in the world is their own thing.

Be willing to share housework and educate your children

This kind of man will be happy to share the housework and educate his children. Marriage is long and the days are mediocre. This kind of man will not sit upright on the sofa to keep his shirt free of wrinkles while his wife is busy with dinner for the family, he will take off his shirt and change into casual clothes, help his wife with dinner or play with the children. Of course, picking up and dropping off children to and from school, holding parent-teacher meetings, and taking children on outings, these are not a problem. Obviously, a new gentleman must not only be a good husband, but also a good father.

Know how to set boundaries for yourself

Everyone knows the truth that do not do to others what they do not want to do, but the new gentlemanly man is “what he does not want to do, he must tell others”. This is a skill in dealing with people, and it is also a kind of wisdom from life experience. To paraphrase the popular saying in the West now, it is “setting boundaries for yourself.” Whether it is between colleagues, superiors and subordinates, friends, or even husband and wife, the new gentleman man knows where the “boundary” is, and will maintain this boundary very principledly. They not only know how to build close relationships and relationships, but also know why they are responsible and do not have to be responsible, and know how to refuse and accept rejection from others.