How to quickly establish a good relationship after picking up a conversation

Many people have successfully added WeChat to chat, but because they do not interact, they will “lie on the friend list”. In fact, the interaction within 24 hours of picking up a conversation is crucial, the key is to “continue the topic, show sincerity, and create opportunities for the next meeting”, so that the other party can quickly develop a good impression of you and lay the foundation for the subsequent relationship to advance.

The first is to “send a ‘personalized message’ in a timely manner to continue the conversation topic”. After adding WeChat, don’t just send “hello”, but send a message in combination with the topic of picking up a conversation, such as after picking up a conversation in a bookstore, you can say: “I was very happy to talk to you about “White Night Walk” today, I went back and flipped through it, and found details that I hadn’t noticed before, which part did you see?” After accosting a conversation in a café, you can say: “I also ordered the raw coconut latte you recommended just now, it is really delicious, thank you for your recommendation~” Personalized messages can remind the other party of you, and continue the previous communication, avoiding the embarrassment of finding the topic again.

The second is “moderate sharing of ‘personal life’ to shorten the distance”. Don’t just talk about each other in the interaction, but also take the initiative to share your life fragments, such as “I passed by a flower shop after get off work today, and I saw that the sunflowers inside were particularly beautiful, so I took a photo to show you” “I plan to learn to make hand-brewed coffee on the weekend, do you usually like to drink hand-drip?” Sharing life can make the other party understand you better, reduce unfamiliarity, and at the same time guide the other party to share her life and form a positive interaction.

Finally, “Seize the opportunity to ‘create the next meeting'”. When the interactive atmosphere is good, you can take the initiative to invite to meet, such as talking about liking to see the exhibition, you can say: “There is an oil painting exhibition next week, it seems to be very good, I happen to have two tickets, do you want to go see it together?” When talking about liking hot pot, you can say: “I know a Chongqing hot pot restaurant is very authentic, if you have time on the weekend, let’s try it together?” The invitation should be based on common interests, and it is more specific and clear, which is easier to accept than the vague “play together when you have time”, and it can also further heat up the good feeling in the meeting.